Living Funerals
For some, the idea of a living funeral comes after receiving a terminal diagnosis. It’s a brave decision - one that asks us to face both life and loss with honesty - but it also offers something powerful: the chance to say goodbye on your own terms.
A living funeral turns the traditional idea of a farewell on its head. It’s not about endings, but about presence. For some, it feels like a last hurrah; for others, it’s about gratitude, closure, or simply gathering with the people who matter most. However it takes shape, a living funeral is deeply personal - and no two are ever the same.

Why choose a living funeral
At its heart, a living funeral is about gathering the people who’ve shaped your life, swapping stories, sharing laughter, and soaking up the love - with you there to feel it.
It’s the chance to hear the words that often go unsaid until it’s too late, to be celebrated and honoured while you’re still present, and to make new memories alongside the people you love most.
A living funeral lets you set the tone - joyful, reflective, light-hearted, or all the above - and creates comfort through honesty and connection. Most of all, it gives you control: a farewell shaped your way, without the limits of tradition or expectation.
The role of a Life + Soul Living Funeral planner
At Life + Soul, we know this decision doesn’t come lightly. Sensitivity matters. A living funeral can feel overwhelming to imagine, let alone organise - and that’s where having a memorial planner can make all the difference.
We’re here to:
- Create space for your wishes, ideas, and stories.
- Handle the practicalities with care and discretion.
- Offer gentle support to you and your loved ones throughout the process.
- Ensure the experience reflects not just your life, but the way you want to be remembered.
Think of us as a guide - someone to help carry the weight of planning, so you can focus on what matters most: spending time with the people you love.
What a living funeral might look like
So, what might your living funeral look like? Honestly - whatever feels right for you, and represents who you are. Because every person is unique, every tribute we create is one of a kind.